The trials of being a 30-something Buffalo resident
This summer I worked for a camp in Orchard Park. The job was a pitstop on my way to something bigger and better. You see, since February of 2007 things have been steadily declining. I’ve lived and worked in the city of Buffalo for 8 years. Prior to that I spent 2 years in Rochester. Sometimes I wish that we would have made Rochester work rather than running “home” at the first sign of trouble job-wise.
As one of my friends interjected (when I was explaining to one of the unit counselours why I can’t find a job in Buffalo) “She loves Buffalo but Buffalo just doesn’t love her”. So true. I have been looking for a job in the city of Buffalo for nearly 2 years. Everything from bank teller to barista to web developer and back. Nobody wants to hire me. Sometimes I get the feeling that it has to do with my age and status. You see - I’m at that in between stage. I’m not in my twenties anymore and I haven’t reached my forties. I’m at the standstill stage for careers. The writer is lucky that he is a teacher. That career is good for any age.
The other factor is status. Colleagues that I knew from GBSB had little to no problem finding a new job. Mostly due to the people that they know and their networking skills. I never felt that networking was important for me, but now I know that it was a vital trait that I should have honed while at the bank.
So - having said these things the next step is to finish school. Once I complete my degree the writer and I will most likely jump the Buffalo ship. Off to a new city with new jobs, a new living situation and new people. Buffalo is too young for us now so we’ll be searching for a great location that has a wider network of 30-somethings. Where is this place I speak of? Good question! Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! (Blue States only please.)
Peace - Chantale (aka hippiegrrl)
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1matt12grain
wrote on 19 August 2009 at 15:49
It’s really tough b/c no one is hiring and if they do, they want a super dynamo. I don’t think it has much to do with age.
I moved to Raleigh/Durham(which was to be one of the best places to live) to find more work, but I just moved back b/c I didn’t like the people. I also considered Pittsburgh, it’s like Buffalo, but bigger.
2admin
wrote on 26 August 2009 at 14:09
We are actually considering moving to the D.C. area once I finish the degree I’m working on right now. It depends on how the job market is in 2010/2011. For what I’m looking to do I’ll need to be near or in a major city and Buffalo just doesn’t have as much going on as it could. It’s sad because I do truly love it here, but bills have to be paid.